Desperation: How to Poison Your Progress

Posted on February 15, 2011 by danielleegnew

If Chaotic Darkness was an outlaw riding the high plains of the Old West, and Darkness had a gun that would only hold one bullet, it would have to choose a bullet that was loaded to do the most damage. That bullet would be loaded with the energy of desperation.

Why do I refer to the “energy” of desperation? Well, because as a Clairvoyant, I recognize the world around me to be a tapestry of distinctive energy strands all woven together, each neatly labeled. The energy of desperation is as unique and identifiable as a fingerprint, and too often, I have witnessed that fingerprint smeared all throughout the ruins of people’s lives.

Desperation is more insidious than garden variety “fear”. Fears can be put to ease through education and applying oneself. Desperation cannot. It is an emotion that comes from twisting one’s perspective so badly that the very path one is on becomes blurred into an irrational nightmare. It is an energy based on the worry that “things will never get better”. It is a subtle and powerful poison so private to experience, and isolating, and terrifying, that most people really never understand how deeply their life is affected. Desperation ruins friendships, business and personal relationships, and opportunities. It’s the “mojo killer”.

Desperation fuels knee-jerk reactions. It creates prisons in our mind where there were formerly no walls. It creates a false sense of “purpose” in a person – “I was so desperate to pay my bills that I robbed a bank.” Desperation is a trickster. It convinces us that we have no other choice, so the desperate choice we make, which is rarely the right one, is suddenly acceptable, because of course we “had no choice”. (We ALWAYS have choices. We just may not like them.) Desperation clouds our judgment — our brains turn off and our “trapped like an animal instinct” turns on. Desperation is the intersection where worry and hopelessness meet.

There will always be times in life where we feel trapped between a rock and a hard place. It is at this juncture that Chaotic Darkness rides into town, takes aim right at our head, and shoots that one bullet loaded with desperation right between our eyes – and straight into our thought process. Unfortunately, being shot with desperation is not a quick death. It slowly leaks into our system and, just like a poison, begins to start systematically paralyzing our vital life functions: Logic, Reason, Compassion, Empathy, Truthfulness, Morality, and finally, the nail in the coffin — Self-Worth.

You can see why Darkness wields this energy.

However, there is an antidote to the poison known as desperation. And it’s manufactured inside each and every one of us. The challenge is to be able to reach the antidote and uncork it while in the throws of choking on a loss of logic, reason, compassion, empathy, truthfulness, morality, and self-worth. It comes down to a choice: Do I reach for the antidote? If you’re out hiking and you’re bitten by a rattlesnake and shouldn’t move (otherwise the poison will get to your heart faster), it creates a crossroads in choices — whether or not you should hike the mile back to camp for the rattlesnake venom antidote in your first aid kit.

The good news is that your antidote for desperation isn’t a mile away in a kit. It’s at your fingertips. The challenge in choices isn’t distance, but DISCIPLINE. Though powerful, desperation is an ILLUSION. It’s not real. It’s a subjective emotion brought on by a combination of deepest fears and a lack of information. The emotion feels real, but the hopelessness of the situation is not. The discipline is in choosing not to indulge the emotion. When that illusion of being trapped between a rock and a hard place plays upon our instinctual need to chew our own leg off to get out of the “trap” we perceive ourselves to be in – it’s time to enact discipline and slow down our racing minds, center ourselves, and remind ourselves that we, indeed, are not raccoons.

Choosing not to indulge the desperation is the antidote. Chaotic Darkness may shoot us square in the head with its most potent round, but it can’t kill us. The poison can’t even leak into our system if we have one hand on the antidote the whole time. Having one hand on the antidote is actually a discipline that we learn, over time, because many of us are conditioned to react like panicked rabbits in a mine field once tough times weigh upon us. As one can imagine – that kind of “scatter” literally turns into “scattered”. Had at least one of the rabbits kept its head, it would have been able to chart a path out of the mine field by simply observing where the mines had already exploded.

Developing the discipline to not react in desperation is easier than you may think. It’s as easy as having a ten second conversation with yourself, once when you first wake up, and once when you go to sleep. You say to yourself, out loud:

“No matter what happens today/tomorrow, I am not trapped. I control my choices, and God (Light/The Universe/Karma) controls the justice.” …then, let any issue you have fall within those guidelines. If your subconscious hears you tell yourself this mantra over and over again, it will eventually believe you, as a first response to conflict, rather than digesting the poison of desperation in a conflict. Your subconscious’ ability to believe in YOU is one of the main ingredients in the antidote.

As an adult, you are never a victim of your own life. Sometimes we choose to remain in difficult situations for a number of reasons – to learn, to grow, because we are too afraid to make a change, because we can’t afford to yet make a change – but we are in full control of that choice to remain. There are always alternatives. Desperation only erupts in our being when we are not able to believe that we can provide ourselves with alternatives to overcome the situation.

As someone who also works in the entertainment field in music, film, and TV, I have had my own battles with desperation throughout my life, mostly when I was young and really believed that the world would fall apart if my artistic needs weren’t met – ahhhh, Ego, thy name is youth 🙂 . As I’ve grown into adulthood, it’s become increasingly obvious to me that the more desperate a person is, the more unstable their energy is, and the less other people want to be around them — which, of course, makes the desperate person feel even more desperate. I have many friends who work as performers in the entertainment industry, and I’ve noticed a quantifiable difference between the ones who have achieved the kind of success where many of you would know them as household names, and the ones that haven’t. The difference is the level of desperation between the very successful people, and the ones who aren’t yet where they wished they would be in their careers.

Sure, one could argue that it’s easy not to be desperate when you’re on top. BUT, the fact that the people on top weren’t very desperate to begin with – they just loved doing what they were doing, and showed up to their film sets with joy in their hearts to be there – is one of the reasons that the fantastic opportunities kept flowing to them, to the point of them becoming household names. This goes back to the now-popular “Law of Attraction”, or as I more accurately like to refer to it, “Like Attracts Like”. If I’m a loving person who is enthusiastically going to work everyday and auditioning and giving my best, I will draw to me other loving people who wish me to be part of their project who are willing to give me their best. If I have gratitude for every job that I have, no matter how big or small, then I will be granted jobs that are grateful to have me. Yet if I am constantly worrying, WHILE I have the job, that I will not get another, then I will draw to me an absence of work. If I am resentful toward the job that I have because I think it’s not big enough, I will draw jobs to me where I am resented, and I will be thought of as small. If I choose a job because I’m desperate someone won’t see me as a genius, then I will be thought of as an imbecile while on the job. Like Attracts Like.

That’s the way it works, folks. Simple, slightly painful sometimes, but thankfully – easy to fix, once we choose to have discipline over our thought process. Once we choose not to give into the illusion of desperation, we are instantly made aware of the fact that just because we feel afraid, and we can’t see how it will all turn out, doesn’t mean that it doesn’t work out well for us.

Remaining calm in the face of adversity in order to enact Faith is very important in administering the antidote against desperation — Faith in our ability to make the right choices, even if the choices seem hard. Faith that The Universe has “what’s yours” in store for you, and that it’s on its way, even if you can’t yet see it coming. Faith that it will all work out, as long as you bring gratitude, honesty, and hard work to the table in your life. Faith to understand that we don’t get to have all the answers along the way. That’s not our job. Our job is to be the best version of “us” that we can, everyday. The rest is left to The Universe. We are magnificent, capable, infinitely creative, and powerful – but we are not the power of The Universe. We are not God. Nor do we need to be in order to manifest happiness, security, fulfillment peace, and safety in our own lives. We simply need to have faith in the Spiritual System, and mostly – in ourselves, that we will DO the right thing. We live in a three dimensional environment down here, and “doing” is very important. I could tell you that you’ll win the lottery, but if you don’t actually go to the corner market and buy a ticket, well…

To indulge desperation really does sell a person short. It is to believe that there is nothing else left for you. And there is NEVER “nothing else left”. That is the biggest illusion of all. You are far too valuable to The Universe to have no life path left, simply because a current situation feels pending. Situations come and situations go, but your spirit, and your ability to weather a tough situation, is far more resilient.

Your future is anything you wish to make it. You are worth far more than the energy of desperation. And let’s face it – who wants to be target practice for Darkness?

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This Just In from the Extra-Terrestrial Airwaves, Folks!

Posted on February 13, 2011 by danielleegnew

UFO in the skies over the Beartooth Mountain Range, Montana
(Photos by Danielle Egnew (c) 2007)

Eyes to the Skies, people! But first, eyes on the airwaves. It will be a very small matter of time here, likely before 2011 is over, before the President of the USA comes out, on record, and makes a formal proclamation that we have, indeed, been actively chatting with our OffWorld friends (that’s what I call “Aliens” becaue I think it’s a little more polite) since the 1930’s. More so after World War II — that whole “splitting the atom thing” got every OffWorlder’s attention. In fact, there have been many OffWorld races that have interacted with humankind, for many thousands of years – and it may shock some of you to know that many of we humans share bits and pieces of DNA with many of our OffWorld cousins. Hey, made God everybody, and not every person is a “purebreed”.

According to the ET Airwaves, which is what I like to call the frequency that I pick up the extra terrestrial “chatter” on – think of a police scanner 😉 – this public disclosure is overdue. In fact, there is pressure form our OffWorld friends, onto the world governments, to get this information out there to the people. Part of this insistency has to do with assistance that our OffWorld friends and cousins will be giving the planet, to help us with some rather impending Solar Flare issues. The flares aren’t going to “scorch” the earth, but the Electromagnetic “bump” from the flares are powerful enough to fry electronics over a majority of the planet, and put pressure on the planet’s plates, ergo, shifting, causing quakes. During the highest potential for these flares, the southern hemisphere will be facing the sun. However, because of the massive nature of the flares, the EMF burst rolls over the planet much like an ocean wave rolling over a pebble. Black-outs will be the new black.

In order for our OffWorld friends to help us out with these flares, they will be using their technology to create a density in space, or an “EMF shield”, that relies on the same technology that allows them to move matter and travel “between” space. We’ve tried to recreate this technology but can’t quite get it right, mostly because the materials they use to propagate this energy aren’t available here on earth. Kinda tough to build a steel bridge without any steel. The death of all those fish and birds down south was a direct result of a failed attempt to create a reverse EMF burst. Instead, it created a particle pressure wave that affected the internal organs of a species of bird that was susceptible to this type of pressure, as well as affecting a section of water, stunning and killing the fish in the area. Think of it like dropping a stick of dynamite into a pond, and all the fish come floating up, only the pressure wave also traveled through the air. That was the last attempt the US Government is going to make on this type of technology. There have been many other tests that have failed, but not with such obvious and large public casualties that couldn’t be blamed on something else. That last failed test made news, and the military is still WAY too far off of making something that would work without creating a subsequent “wave” that slaps back against the earth and causes, well – lots of dead things. We just don’t know how to manipulate magnetic fields the way that our OffWorld cousins do, and we sure don’t have the right equipment to do it.

In order to have this “EMF net” in place, our OffWorld friends will need to have a series of craft in place, at different levels in the atmosphere. Those craft will be visible from the planet to the naked eye, stationed all over the skies, just hovering. The OffWorlders are not entirely sure that they can create a “net” big enough to hold back the billions of cubic tons of rolling Electromagnetic energy that the sun will have burped in the direction of the earth – that is an awful lot of energy to displace. From what I can see, the mechanics of this EMF net are pretty fascinating! The net doesn’t “catch” the energy – it displaces it. It creates a density in space by resonating, leaving a section of space “out of phase” with the space around it, making it slightly “heavier”, like a “tear”. The Electromagnetic energy is then drawn to the seam of the more dense space, and is sucked into it. Think of a “Black Hole”, but without the enormous gravitational pull. This is a dense rift that acts like a “gutter” that cuts, dimensionally, *through* space, and dumps the energy out far away from the planet, like a gutter that empties water into a street grating only to dump the water out three miles away into the river. Our OffWorld friends have the technology to create these dimensional rifts, as that’s how the craft travel. That’s why the UFO’s appear to move “all over the place” then disappear – they aren’t subject to our gravity, because they are displacing space around them to move, and when they want to
“fold space” they do, and they appear to DISappear to our naked eye.

You can see why we’re lacking the technology to do this whole EMF net thing.

It looks as if the “EMF gutter” will make a difference, but it may not save the entire planet from Black Outs, as hoped. However, it will, at least, leave sections of the planet functioning with electricity, which is good. And, it will save the planet from some of the plate impact from the sun’s shockwave, lessening the earthquakes, though those will still be impending on some level.

SO – with all this going down, and craft hovering high up in the skies, you can imagine the widespread panic, unless, of course, President Obama comes out and says, “These are our friends”, which is what he is preparing to do. The first announcement he will make will simply confirm the reality of UFOs. There will be a subsequent grouping of press conferences with other world leaders, mostly China and The Russian Republic, where the world leaders acknowledge on-going communication with our OffWorld friends. NATO already has an appointee to OffWorlder relations, and that person will be introduced.

There are many OffWorld races, but around four OffWorld races that I “pick up” on a regular basis, hanging around the earth. Three I’ve actually physically witnessed down here. Some are nicer than others. Some look shockingly like us (Hmmm, wonder who contributed to *our* DNA over the years?) and they are very pleasant. Of course, there are the Greys, which aren’t the ones who are going to be helping with the EMF shield, and aren’t exactly very friendly. There are some very tall very light skinned lanky hairless guys who are pretty cool actually and do a lot of telepathic communication and even some really interesting time-travel stuff (and I think they also may be interdimensional), some wonky reptile-looking guys that give me the creeps and sometimes wear big black robes (these guys are a little elitist in my opinion, and their resonance is just not right…like, well, a lizard. The Greys are more like Spider energy, which I really don’t like.). The tall lanky light skinned guys are going to help us the most with this EMF shield issue, along with our very humanoid friends.

So. Now you have the skinny. Unless our OffWorld friends abandon their plan to help us out, which appears to be rather complex, we will get a chance to see them. There is something about our leaders not disclosing to the people about the existence of the OffWorlders that is affecting their ability to help, or their willingness to help, and that is one of the main points of irritation between two of the Offworld species and our Government, who, according to the Tall Lanky guys, promised they would make a disclosure in 2009 after the appearance of the Norway Spiral. The whole POINT of the OffWorlders creating a temporal anomaly like the Spiral was so that the world leaders could reference it, since so many people saw it and had it on camera. Such a spectacular and never-before-seen light anomaly was a perfect reason to make the announcement of OffWorld life, but for lack of a better description, our Government went back on their agreement, claiming that the country was still in too much trauma over the recession, and they feared anarchy and looting in the streets should the public be told that their banks were failing, credit card companies were allowed to run wild, and – oh yeah, Space Aliens are real.

I’ve been picking up a sense of urgency from the OffWorlders for our President to make an announcement, and I’m left with no other choice but to think that that has something to do with the solar issue. That’s really the only thing that makes me nervous about any of this — the timing of the sun.

Don’t be startled – our OffWorld friends have been coming and going from our lovely planet for thousands of years. They are as much of a fixture here, as much of a part of the planet’s cultural history, as we are. Though we are the species occupying the planet, much of their influence, and even DNA, runs around with us everyday. Think of our OffWorld friends and cousins the same way that a deep sea fish would think of us: We may appear alien to a fish that lives at a depth of 6,000 feet, yet we are actively living above. The fish would consider “air” deadly, like we would consider the vacuum of space, and would never attempt to leave the depths of the ocean. Just because we can’t “move through space” like our OffWorld friends doesn’t mean that they are not there, and have been there, the entire time.

A lot more UFO sightings in the months to come will be occurring over China and the East U.S. Coast, according to my “ET Radio ;)”. There is a large underwater OffWorlder complex off of the coast of Japan, and it’s REALLY old. It looks like some sort of gravitationally optimized spot on the earth, much like the Bermuda Triangle and a spot about 70 miles Southeast of Easter Island, where it makes for a very easy “intradimensional airport”. The Norway Spiral was a visible “Temporal Elevator” that took advantage of the gravitational optimization at that location, and our humanoid and tall lanky friends opened that right up and “beamed down” in 2009, for a summit with a number of world leaders. Yes, there is an OffWorld Counsel that has been dealing with our leaders for some time. Certain OffWorld cultures are much more amendable to this idea than others. They’re working on it. The Greys are pretty much out for themselves, and the reptilian OffWorlders don’t exactly see us as their equals, but they’re not going to “colonize us” – lol – actually, they consider this planet to be a tad bit “low rent” compared to what they’re used to, with multiple suns, and multiple floating seas – man, Harry Potter has NOTHING on the reality that these guys live in! Again, I’m generalizing about these OffWorld cultures. There are kind beings in EVERY species, regardless of the overall political agenda of the species. But just for the record – the Greys really are creepy, and really do have the same vibe as a spider. I dont think they’re “evil” (and neither are spiders), it’s just that they’re the least like us, culturally, genetically, spiritually — the whole deal. Even the reptilian guys, though they’re not exactly thinking we’re their equal, are warmer than the Greys, and thats not saying much.

There you have it, hot off the Extra-Terrestrial Airwaves. Now it will be old news to you, by the time this all hits Twitter.

Live long and prosper ;).

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So You Think you May Be Psychic? How to Live with Your Gifts

Posted on February 10, 2011 by danielleegnew

As someone who does what I do, both in media and with private clients, I often receive the same question multiple times in a day: “I’m having Psychic Experiences, and I think I may be a Psychic / Medium / Sensitive. How do I deal with this?”

This can be a daunting feeling, if one feels that they are “all alone” in these experiences. How to deal with these abilities and not feel overwhelmed and isolated because of them, is a problem that has often plagued spiritually sensitive people from early ages onward. Many consider these gifts to be “curses”, based upon a lack of experience in dealing with the gift coupled with a prevalent amount of religious dogma in our Western Society.

If you ever get a chance to watch “Psychic Kids”, even in re-runs, I feel those who are questioning would learn a lot from the show – I know that as an adult, I sure have!! I didn’t have anyone to help me out as a kid, with any of these abilities. I was raised in a very traditional Evangelical Christian home in Montana, though my grandparents, who were Italian Catholic, were rather mystical about spirituality. Having no one to discuss these aptitudes with can be scary, although the entire Psychic Phenomenon has become far more mainstream in the past five years. Not having enough information on how to deal with these aptitudes can sometimes be terrifying, when, in reality, the “Psychic situation” is a very workable one.

If you’re a person questioning what you can be doing with your own spiritual gifts, the first thing I need to do is help you “de-mystify” what you are going through, as believe it or not, and certainly not to dismiss your struggles in any way – but what you are going through is very common for people who are “open channels”. This may be through Psychic experiences, or Mediumship, or Empathy, or all of the above.

I often receive letters where people are regularly seeing and hearing deceased family members. What they are experiencing, though it can be interpreted as very scary (because often we are not given support in how to deal with it) is actually not a curse. I promise you, it’s not. It’s a Mediumship Aptitude, and without someone to listen to the experience, and help you as a child, it would be natural that you would be very, very afraid of these visitors who always seemed to be around, and would appear to be “tormenting” you, when in fact – many of them are simply seeking help as well. I, too, see and experience spirits, and their emotionality. This ability to do so has been documented in many world religions. In the Christian religions, the figure Elijah saw and talked to all sorts of dead people  — so did Enoch.

The Mediumship Aptitude is not a curse, but an “extra antennae” that allows you to pick up what others cannot see or hear. The best I can tell you when dealing with any extra-sensory gift is this – the first thing to do is to accept that you are “wired” with some “extra sensors”, and look at it like a mechanical issue, rather than a “curse”. If we decide that something no longer is frightening, and understand what it is, then immediately, it begins to be less scary.

If you have a spiritual aptitude that allows you to have “extra sensors”, and these “extra sensors” pick up human beings who once had bodies, but don’t anymore, who sometimes are confused, or lost, or simply choose to stay here, after their bodies expire. These humans are the same as you or me – they just don’t have a “flesh suit”, or a body, like we do. You see, every living creature on earth, while in physical residency on this earth, is required to wear a body, or a flesh suit – just like an astronaut would wear a space suit. A body is the “necessary outfit” for our soul to be able to function here, to pick things up, walk around, reproduce, lol – you get the jist. So, though the disembodied person standing in front of you may seem a bit shocking, it’s very important to remember that these spirits are JUST people. They may startle us, or they may “feel weird”, because without a body, the soul actually has an electromagnetic field which is a little uncomfortable to experience for those of us in a body. And, if it makes you feel any better, WE feel weird to spirits for the same reason. Spirits are actually on a different vibration, or frequency , than we are, and just like putting your feet on a massager that vibrates at a different rate than your foot, spirits are literally “vibrating” at a higher frequency than we are , while we are in a physical body. They are moving a bit faster than we are 9with respect to particle Physics), which is why, often, they can’t be seen to by the naked eye. Anyway, because of this “vibration”, what we feel as “scary”, is literally, just science – it’s the fact that these poor folks without a body are vibrating faster than we are, and it just feels weird, in the same way that static electricity feels weird against your skin. Do your best not to be frightened by the way that they feel. It’s simply EMF – an electromagnetic field. It’s a real, detectable thing that paranormal investigators use EMF meters to locate spirits with. Even non-Psychic people can detect EMF, and high EMF fields can actually cause nausea, paranoia, hallucinations, and skin irritations – and, to boot, EMF is naturally occurring, in electricity. People who don’t ground their wiring well enough have too much EMF in their homes.

So far, we’ve covered that:

1) These entities are just people, without bodies, so there’s no need to fear them.
2) They feel weird for an actual scientific reason – because they give off an electromagnetic field, which living humans are sensitive to.

Now, the third thing to keep in mind is that with Mediumship often times (but not always) comes the Empath ability – and as an empath, you will tend to soak up, or “feel” these entities’ emotions. However, just because you CAN soak it in, does not mean that you have to. When you feel those washes of emotionality come over you, imagine the emotion like a big ball in front of you, and imagine yourself simply rolling up on top of the ball. You can feel it beneath you, but you are not letting the ball roll THROUGH you. Observe the emotion, recognize that it does not come from you, and refuse to experience it. As an “open channel”, you have the slight challenge of teaching yourself how to CLOSE the channel, rather than OPENING it, which is what most people attempt to do. You can close the channel by simply separating yourself from the emotion, and making a conscious recognition that it doesn’t belong to you. You can even say, “This emotion doesn’t belong to me, and I’m not going to participate with it.” You may feel a little sad, or a little mad, but please keep in mind that YOU have 100% control over whether or not you allow yourself to “go down that emotional path” with these entities. Remember, just because you CAN doesn’t mean you HAVE TO. So, to recap:

1) These entities are just people, without bodies, so there’s no need to fear them. You wouldn’t fear the people standing in the grocery store line with you, even if they had a Halloween mask on, right ?
2) They feel weird for an actual scientific reason – because they give off an electromagnetic field, which living humans are sensitive to.
3) Just because you are picking up an emotion, does not mean you have to absorb it. Say out loud to the person (without a body) who is in front of you, “These are not my emotions. You need to back off.”

The hard habit to break is not feeling like a victim in all this, as when we are children and feeling helpless within these spiritual aptitudes, we often do feel like victims. If we are not taught how to responsibly deal with this stuff, then as adults, we wrongly continue feeling like there is nothing we can do about any of it, but that is the way that our “inner child” is looking at the situation.

When our adult comes to the table, the truth is that we have 100% control over how much we participate with these entities, and how much we feel from them. If you’re not in the mood to deal with them, you can simply say: “You can’t talk with me right now. I’m sorry. You have to leave.” And make a conscious choice to “disconnect” from them, and not engage them. Just like you would tell a stranger who was in your home to get out. You’d talk for a second, then you’d walk away. Remember that you have 100% control over this ability. So to recap:

1) These entities are just people, without bodies, so there’s no need to fear them. You wouldn’t fear the people standing in the grocery store line with you, even if they had a Halloween mask on, right ?
2) They feel weird for an actual scientific reason – because they give off an electromagnetic field, which living humans are sensitive to.
3) Just because you are picking up an emotion, does not mean you have to absorb it. Say out loud to the person (without a body) who is in front of you, “These are not my emotions. You need to back off.”
4) You are not a helpless victim of this wonderful spiritual aptitude — you have 100% control over how much you choose to participate with these entities, even though it may take a little practice in how to “not engage them”. You can say out loud, “I know you’re here. I’m busy, and you’ll have to move on.” And then stop giving them any focus. The last part is the hardest, because it demands that we simply choose not to fall back into the inner child’s “fear consciousness”. Remember –No person without a body has any authority over you.

The last and most important step is to FULLY EMBRACE who you are, and how you are wired, because these gifts don’t go away, and until you fully make peace with this “extra sensor”, it will continue to be the “unsettled piece” of you, that you will fear. But there’s nothing at all to fear. Who you are, and what you are able to do, is beautiful. Even if no one has helped you overcome the fear of living with it. Now, we are going to move this last step to the front of the line, so your five-point checklist, as living with a Medium, is:

1) FULLY EMBRACE that this gift is not a curse, but an “extra sensor”, and what you are able to experience is not be feared, as a child would fear it, but embraced as an adult would embrace extra tools in their tool kits.
2) These entities are just people, without bodies, so there’s no need to fear them. You wouldn’t fear the people standing in the grocery store line with you, even if they had a Halloween mask on, right ?
3) They feel weird for an actual scientific reason – because they give off an electromagnetic field, which living humans are sensitive to.
4) Just because you are picking up an emotion, does not mean you have to absorb it. Say out loud to the person (without a body) who is in front of you, “These are not my emotions. You need to back off.”
5) You are not a helpless victim of this wonderful spiritual aptitude — you have 100% control over how much you choose to participate with these entities, even though it may take a little practice in how to “not engage them”. You can say out loud, “I know you’re here. I’m busy, and you’ll have to move on.” And then stop giving them any focus. The last part is the hardest, because it demands that we simply choose not to fall back into the inner child’s “fear consciousness”. No person without a body has any authority over you.

You do have guides and angels, and they look after you. This gift you have can be used for HUGE amounts of good. You can help police solve crimes by being able to speak to the victims who have passed over. You can help bring closure to families who hurt. And you will develop in no time the ability to “close the Psychic blinds” when you don’t want to engage these entities, just as you would choose to hang up the phone with someone you were speaking with, that you were done talking to. I went through what you went through, and I trained myself, all on my own, to do what I described to you, and it made all the difference in the world. This advice is equally sage for Clairvoyants. Sometimes, the things we seeing the future aren’t always happy. Simply remind yourself that you are peering through “the blinds in time”, and seeing action that your current timeline has not yet caught up with. Keep in mind that the future is also malleable. Also realize that you, as a Psychic, are not responsible for saving the whole world. That’s an guilt-ego-issue that many people who are struggling with these aptitudes will wrestle with. You can only do what you can do. None of us are God. As long as you do your best, you’re well within your duties as a spiritual worker.

Yes, sometimes situations can seem intense. There are bully spirits, but just get right in their face and tell them to bug off, just like you would a person. If you ever run into a Chaotic dark entity, or a Demonic, I will tell you that no matter what our individual faiths are down here on earth, those entities are afraid to the core of their being of Jesus, and by invoking Jesus, and Michael the Arc Angel in the name of Jesus, you’ll send that darkness packing. Jesus doesn’t care if you’re Wiccan or Mormon or Catholic or nothing at all – just as long as you call Him in if you need Him. Both He, and Michael, are here to help. (Sheesh, Jesus was the original paranormal investigator and Demonologist! 😉 If you feel uncomfortable with this, then call a priest. They’re very comfortable with “kicking the behind” of darkness. It’s their job. Demons are not to be feared, as they eat fear, and no one wants to be a Demon buffet, and they are to be dealt with a little differently than you would deal with a negative once-human entity. Think of Demons like a shark in the water. It’s very unlikely that you will ever see a shark, or of you do, that the shark will attack you, but be mindful if it’s swimming too close.

I hope this helps you. Other than what I’ve relayed, it’s just a simple slight re-adjustment in how you look at how you’re wired – a choice you make, to stop looking at how you were made as a ”curse”, which is negative, and looking at it as a “gift”, which it is, once you get your groove with it and practice setting boundaries with these spirits, just as you would with your own child. Mediumship and Clairvoyance are both the types of gift that when employed correctly, can help many, many people, if you simply practice applying those five bullet points, and get comfortable with them.

You can do this. God doesn’t make mistakes, and doesn’t make junk ;), and never gives us something that we can’t handle. So clearly, you’ll be able to take the “five-point challenge” and succeed! Remember – no matter how “creeped out” you feel – it’s just a feeling. It’s not the reality of the situation. And once you re-train yourself out of that child’s perspective of fear, pretty soon, it’s just “a day in the life of a Psychic Medium”, and someday YOU’LL be passing on your own version of this to someone who needs help !

Take care, embrace and rejoice in how you’re made because it’s extraordinary and perfect, and shine brightly !!

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